Category: Parent Talk

By Ntombenhle Khathwane We speak a lot about what it means to be a good parent, present, patient, protective, and loving. But rarely do we talk about the parent as a person beyond the role. In our homes, in our communities, and particularly in African society, parenthood is often treated like the final destination of […]

By Ntombenhle Khathwane Before a child learns to speak, to write, or even to walk, their nervous system is already learning one of two things: “The world is safe, and I am safe in it.” Or: The world is unsafe, and I must always be on guard.”

By Ntombenhle Khathwane We often say “love is enough.” But the truth is, not all love is healthy. Not all love heals. In fact, some of the most damaging experiences in our lives were done in the name of “love.”